This PR has a large blast radius because it takes the final step and bumps up the Controller to be fully async.
We have historically done a piece-by-piece update, so all operations were already async but the controller interface was kept synchronous.
With this update, the controller is now fully async and all tests are updated.
Most places where the new C# compiler warns about function names not ending in `Async` were also adressed, giving a massive refactor change.
Functionally, no changes are done.
This adds an extra option to allow setting the SQLite page cache size as a regular option.
Prior to this commit it was only possible to set the SQLite page cache size via environment variables.
The option to use environment variables is preserved, and as options from the environment variable are applied after the new setting, environment variables take precedence.
The default value for the new option is to use 1% of the system memory for the page cache. For the restore process, a connection per worker may be made which defaults to half the number of cores, so the maximum amount of memory is 1% * half the CPU cores.
This is just the upper limit, and SQLite may choose not to use all of it.
This fixes#6178