Add .github/FUNDING.yml to enable the Sponsor button, refocus the
README on selfhoster users with a Highlights section and a Supporting
Silo section, and move contributor-facing content (dev workflow, make
targets, migrations, tests, project structure) into DEVELOPMENT.md.
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